This is not political.
The question I’m polling is “Should Josh take Friday off?”
Now, allow me to give you just a bit of information so you may make an informed decision. Two months ago Josh had me put on the calendar that he would need to be out of town overnight May 20-21 for work. So this I’ve had in mind, no big deal. But on the 19th he came home and said that since his meeting was first thing in the morning on the 20th, he really needed to leave that night. Then yesterday he called and said that he now had meetings there on Thursday and would need to stay over another night. Now I’m sure he’ll probably get in his 40 hours no problem, but he hasn’t been around here to work on other work projects which he’s thinking now he’ll need to do on Friday. And if that were all there is to the situation then I would say nah, he can work it. But tomorrow night he has class, which means that he will basically get back to town just in time to go straight to school and still won’t be home untill around 9 or 10 pm. And to celebrate my birthday, we’re having company this weekend–some who have never seen our home before, and they’re all arriving Friday. I’ve been alone with all four kids all week. It’s the last week of school so they’ve been filling my dinningroom with all the crap they’ve cleaned out of their desks etc. There are still lots of little projects we need to finish around the house. The house is a mess.
Having the inside scoop here at the office, I hear a lot of things! They(a couple of field guys) were joking around about leaving Josh down there the rest of the week!!! They didn’t think that would go over too well!
I wouldn’t dare answer this “poll.” Of course, it’s political.
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Hey Becca! I know a little of what it is like to have the hubby gone so much. You feel like a single mom almost. I am real good at cleaning and I could help you out before Friday if you want.
Ohhhh, Elise you are SO nice! I say that I agree with Dan!
I would say that Elise would make a great politician!
It is always a struggle within to balance the demands of one’s vocation with needs of family and service to others. A husband and father feels a continual responsibility to provide well for his family. Josh is a diligent provider, highly regarded among his peers and striving through his MBA work to excel even further. He is also ALWAYS mindful of his wife and children - who he loves VERY MUCH and ever strives to please and satisfy their needs. All things being equal - most husbands and fathers would choose to be with their companions and children; for that is where they find lasting joy. Gentle counsel from our companions help husbands and fathers to keep from getting out of balance with work. Trust that Josh is doing ALL he can to remain in balance and continue to support and await when greater attention can be directed to those he loves most. The night classes are almost done - Hang in there!
Wow.
I have taken off work. I did come home on Thursday between work and school. Melissa who wanted me to stay down and why?
Elise you were awesome thanks for your help.
Becca you are awesome you did a great job so far and I look forward to helping you make the finishing touches.
This is political and there is no right answer.
Monty and Juan Valdez were joking around. Monty said he had to take off after the training and Juan said oh, you can leave Josh down there all week, can’t you? Monty, said Oh I better not, it probably won’t go over very well.
Okay, I have to put my 2 cents in, for what it’s worth. I just have to say I’m amazed at the family Josh and Becca have created. I know it probably doesn’t run smoothly all the time, but you are a busy family and you make it work. I’m very impressed. The kids are in dance, boy scouts, etc. Like most of us you are on a tight budget, but you still ‘give’ your children all the opportunities to grow and explore the world. I don’t know how you do it. Your children are so well behaved and respectful of others. Josh works hard at work and school. Becca you have a tough job too, running the house w/ four kids. Life is a rollercoaster, just enjoy the ride! It can be freaking scary, exciting, and fun all at the same time.
Don’t worry about the house, we all understand!
wowwwwwww… so many comments! I just want to say that if that house isn’t sparkling by the time I get there, then I am sleeping in the family room… oh wait, I was doing that already… then never mind… keep it dirty that way I don’t feel bad the next time you have to sleep at my pig sty!